For nannies
Questions you should be asking the family
The questions nannies should ask a family before accepting a position, so there are no surprises later.
What should a nanny ask a family in an interview?
Ask about the schedule, guaranteed hours, pay, how you will be paid, paid time off, and exactly which duties are expected.
Also ask about the children's routines, the parenting style, and how the parents prefer to communicate during the day.
Why ask whether the family pays on the books?
Being paid legally on a W-2 gives you Social Security credit, proof of income, and protections such as overtime.
A family that already plans for payroll is usually a family that treats nannying as a profession.
How do I ask about why the last nanny left?
Ask simply and neutrally: How long was your last nanny with you, and why did that position end?
The answer tells you a lot about turnover and expectations.
Frequently asked questions
Is it okay to ask a family about pay in the first interview?
Yes. Asking about pay, guaranteed hours, and time off early saves both sides time.
Should I ask whether there is a written work agreement?
Yes. A written agreement protects you and the family by putting hours, pay, and duties in writing.
What questions show a family I am a professional?
Questions about the children's routines, development goals, and communication preferences show you are thinking about the care, not only the job.
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